A small pause in a busy family life: Ramadan reflections from Indonesia

Rina Hutari, a Donor Care Officer in Islamic Relief Indonesia, reflects on what Ramadan means to her family.

As a mother of 2 daughters who also works at a humanitarian organisation, my days often move very quickly. Most of my time is spent at work, and the rest is divided between household responsibilities and caring for my children. Quality time with my kids can feel very limited.

But Ramadan always brings a different rhythm.

During Ramadan, we share more routines and spend time together more intentionally. Suhoor, breaking the fast, and praying taraweeh become small moments that feel deeply meaningful. That is why Ramadan is always one of the times we look forward to the most.

Of course, each day begins with a familiar challenge: waking the children up for suhoor. Yet somehow, it always ends peacefully — sharing a meal together while they eat with sleepy faces and half-open eyes.

As a family of food lovers, visiting the local market each afternoon to find food for iftar has become a ritual we truly enjoy. Choosing and buying their favourite dishes feels like a small reward for their effort in fasting throughout the day.

Another activity we eagerly look forward to is walking together to the mosque for tarawih prayers. Along the way, we usually chat and laugh lightly.

These simple moments feel like a pause from our daily routines — a small pause that carries a deep and meaningful impact on the bond between me as a mom and my daughters.

Ramadan is not only about abstaining from food and drink. Ramadan is about being fully present. It is about appreciating togetherness that is often missed in our ordinary days.

This year, Islamic Relief is aiming to provide Ramadan packs to over 1.1 million people in 32 countries. Make the most of this holy month by donating today to help provide iftar for families in need around the world.